While online dating is a fun and convenient way to meet new people, it's worth remembering that not everyone has good intentions. Here are some tips to help you stay safe.
Protect your personal information
- Avoid sharing information that makes you easily identifiable, such as your full name, home or work address, and daily routine, until you've built real trust with someone.
- Never share financial information, such as bank details, card numbers, or your Social Security number.
Watch for warning signs
- They try to move the conversation off JSwipe to text, email, or another app right away.
- They profess strong feelings very quickly, or repeatedly avoid video calls and meeting in person.
- Their story doesn't add up, or there's always an emergency that requires money.
Take your time and trust your instincts
It can be tempting to dive into a conversation and share everything about yourself right away. It's best to be discreet, at least in the beginning — ask questions, and don't be afraid to end contact if something doesn't feel right. If someone sounds too good to be true, take a level-headed approach and question whether they're who they say they are.
Keep it on JSwipe
We know it's sometimes more convenient to exchange contact details or chat outside of the app, but our in-app messaging lets you report suspicious behavior directly. A genuine match will understand your hesitation — if they get defensive or try to guilt-trip you into moving off the app, consider that a red flag.
Never send or accept money
Requests for money, gift cards, cryptocurrency, or "investments" — however small at first — are one of the clearest signs of a scam. If you receive a request like this, please report it right away.
Meet safely in person
- Meet in a public place, especially for the first few dates, and arrange your own transportation.
- Tell a friend or family member where you'll be and keep your phone charged.
- A video call before meeting in person is a simple way to confirm someone is who they claim to be.
- If anything feels off, you don't owe anyone an explanation — leave.
If something feels wrong
You can report or block a member at any time. For instructions, see How do I report/block a member?